~I have No Pulpit:But I Am A Leader Without One~

I have met a lot of frustrated leaders and I have been one myself. Many things are frustrating about being a leader. People refuse to change, markets or demographics change, windows of opportunity are missed, resources are depleted and on and on the list goes. These things happen to everyone, but not everyone becomes highly frustrated to the point of burn out or become so fed up that they simply quit. I am going to share seven habits that actually fuel high levels of frustration in leaders, their teams and their organizations. I am aware that there are many contributing factors, but I am going to focus on seven that I have dealt with  and have observed in others. My frustrations about the philosophy of a church leader has it”s own core values and levels of tolerance that have equipped me to press onward and upward, so I hope you find something in this post for you.

1. “Unfortunately, much of what I see today isn’t about fulfilling one’s true potential as much as it is about appearing to fulfill what other people expect.”

2. “We instinctively know how to lead if we allow ourselves. …When instincts are ignored, leaders become followers, and followers become unemployed.”

3. “Anything that we do for years that doesn’t match the inner imprint of our gifting will eventually become monotonous and routine, ritualistic and frustrating.”

4. “Leadership emerges not only when an individual can capably do what needs doing; the real test is passed when a person can implement what needs to be done through others.”

5. “When you operate independently in the midst of your team, it stunts their growth as well as your own. You don’t want to lead a task, run a business, direct a philanthropy, or guide a church if your stakeholders assume you don’t need their help. If you want to lead by your instincts, then you must create a vision large enough that you cannot achieve it alone. …Start pushing something that you can’t carry and watch how people will come to your aid. But pick up a box you can manage, and people will simply watch you carry the load.”

6. “I prefer leaders who have been in the trenches. I tend to prefer people who know what it means to rise through the ranks and see the organization from a variety of angles and positions. Because I am admittedly a pull-yourself-up-by-the-bootstraps person who worked his way up, always crawling before walking, I value people who have enjoyed wide and diverse experiences, people who have failed and learned something from what went wrong, people who shrugged it off and kept going.”

7. “Many people seem to have trouble identifying their highest passion and gifting. I often tell them, ‘Your purpose is in your passions—not just what you love but what you passionately hate.’ …If you can’t stand to see bad hairdos, maybe you should consider becoming a stylist.”


2 thoughts on “~I have No Pulpit:But I Am A Leader Without One~

    SingleFocus said:
    April 4, 2016 at 12:03 pm

    Good. Very Good. I especially like #7, because I never thought about two ways of looking at passion.

    blessedaaron08 responded:
    April 4, 2016 at 5:21 pm

    Thanks for your time in reading and gleaning from this post…#7 is my daily motivational reminder as well…

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